Guide for:Pay Pigs

Here are some general guidelines, from experience, to help those on
the road bridge the gap between thinking about it and experiencing the
real fulfillment that only genuine self-sacrifice can bring.

Do thoughts of kneeling before a woman and offering your open wallet
to her make your breathing deepen? Do you find yourself fantasizing
about financial slavery, and masturbating to it, several times a week?
Want to make it a reality, but on a scale that is realistic and still
offers you a safety cushion?

• Find a Goddess who best shares your interests. Someone whom you
admire from a distance and who you would most like to be enslaved to.

• Start understanding that the object is HER, not you. This is so
important and beyond question the hardest step to maintain. I suggest
writing it down everywhere. Some little cryptic phrase that only you
will understand, but that will remind you of the truth when you need
it most - in those moments when you're NOT staring at her, or her
picture, with a raging stiffy and your wallet in your mouth.

Seeing "Remember who it's really for", or "Stop NOW! Think of Her for
30 seconds. Nothing ever comes before Her." on your blotter at work,
or on your PDA every day will go a long way to building up that
critical link. It doesn't matter who She is - your wife, a friend, a
stranger, an online Goddess. Whomever she is, she is important to you
and you should want to listen to her and make her happy. That, after
all, is the whole point of this.

• Start small, but regularly. Make the act of tribute something you do
every day. Between the two of you, make it an expected ritual. Do it
at the same time, wearing the designated items, and/or in the
designated position. The amounts, I suggest, should be minimal at
first, growing much more significant later. Allow yourself time to
appreciate the pleasures of giving - slowly, quietly and ruthlessly
regularly. Can you imagine how it will make her feel, even three years
ahead, when she looks back at an unbroken chain of daily tributes? Of
putting her before anything else.

• Allow trust to build up - allow her online access to your bank
account. If not quite ready for this step, create a second account
into which you transfer money. Give her access to this second account.
Understand the feelings generated in males like us when we log in and
see the balance has changed. Be sure to send her a brief thank you
note for allowing you to serve her this way. Imagine yourself on the
receiving end of this note, and how it will make her feel. Remember
who all this is really for.

She will appreciate the treasure, literally and figuratively, she has
in you and will work with you to find a balance (no pun intended) you
can both live with and perhaps, over time, expand on. From her
perspective, it's in her long term interests not to violate the leap
of faith you are taking for her. Pillaging your account may bring her
short term satisfaction but just cheats her of years of dedicated
service. It's especially foolish considering how truly rare slaves are
who are willing to go this far. It's not like she gets this
opportunity every week.

• If serving online, set up a webcam where she can see you making your
tribute. Give her the pleasure of watching you show your daily
devotion in the manner she has chosen for you to do it. If your
relationship is in an advanced stage, perhaps she will let you buy her
a high quality webcam so you can watch her accessing your bank
account. How do you think that will make you feel? How do you think
that will make her feel?

• Allow her access to your credit cards - as little or as much as you
both feel comfortable with. Consider taking out a card, or multiple
cards, specifically for her - this is hers to use as she sees fit,
under terms agreed by both of you. Imagine how this will make her
feel, giving her the power and freedom. Showing her you respect and
trust her enough not to take you over the edge. It's the same with
debit cards. Giving her access, and her own card, is a major step for
both of you.

• Another thing to consider is for her to open up an account at your
bank. Set up an automatic transfer that will move money to this second
account, to which only she has access, microseconds after it arrives.
She can then transfer back into your account the amount of money she
decides you are to have, based on a previously agreed upon arrangement
- enough to cover basic needs, bills, etc.

• As you talk with her - either online or in real life, and she
casually mentions an interest - "Oh, I *love* his movies!" - quietly
and without fuss write it down and remember it. Surprise her on
occasion, either just because or if she's in a blue mood. At the very
least, this special Goddess should be shown how much you value being
in her service every week, in some unexpected way.

• Quietly learn her interests, her charities. A donation - either
occasional or regulary - to a cause or charity she passionately
believes in will go a long way to showing her you appreciate her as an
individual. Make the donation in her name, not yours and if it's to
one she knows you're opposed to or disagree with yourself, so much the
better.

• Let her downscale your budget a bit but, initially at least, she
should do this in very careful stages. The fantasy of sudden poverty
is often far more attractive than the reality. But achieving reality
is the point of all this, is it not? Allow yourself, once comfort and
trust have been achieved, to give up more and more control. It really
is so liberating to have financial pressures removed from your life.
For both of you.

• Between the two of you set a goal for sacrifice and work to that
point. For example, "By the end of your third month of service, I
expect 25% of your gross earnings to be freely and willingly tributed
to me. Within one year, I expect 50% to be mine. Within two years,
you'll increase that to 75%."

• Start keeping a record of all your incomings and outgoings.
Preferably one to which she has full access. Start monitoring your
expenses. Ask yourself if there are areas you can cut back. Do you
really need to buy that? Think of the new Donatella Versace she can
get with that money.

Think how happy it will make her feel, how privileged and special she
will see herself. Do your very best to minimize your own expenses as
much as you can, though still leaving some room for the occasional
treat for yourself. Don't be surprised if she is in a mood to give you
a little treat every now and then herself. Learn to appreciate these
times, and feel grateful that she takes the time, makes the time, to
show her appreciation for your consistent service to her needs.

• Make her the beneficiary of your insurance, or of a second insurance
policy. If your situation permits it, draft a will leaving a little or
a lot to her. This is a seriously high trust thing to do - don't do it
casually.

• Squirrel away a small amount from the budget she allows you to have,
and surprise her with a sudden gift. This does so much more than all
the talk in the world to show her that she is the number one priority
in your life.

• For advanced relationships, allow her to have power of attorney over
you. You are exposing yourself extremely vulnerably - the dangers and
rewards are commensurate with this. Do you think she will be more
inclined to throw away this rare treasure she has, or is she more
likely to nourish it and keep it going as long as she possibly can?

• Do your utmost never to embarrass her in front of other people. If
you are in strong disagreement, and you have a developed relationship,
she should pick up on your distress subconsciously and act as she
thinks best. Try to live a life based on 'Her decision is final.' She
can forgive many things, but making her lose face in front of others
will be something she is not likely to forgive any time soon.

This is such an easy thing to type but such a difficult thing to do in
reality. It's easy to serve when lying prostrate in front of her and
carefully painting her toenails before blowing them lovingly dry. It's
not so easy when, for example, her children are screaming for their
dinner you're cooking at the same time as you're trying to finish off
the ironing; you're feeling Mr. Pouty Face coming on; or looking with
growing depression at things in stores you can no longer afford to buy.

Those are the times when serving is really difficult, and the times
when you must actively take the time to focus. Little reminders of why
you do this will help, as will taking a small time out to get your
focus back. But there will be times when depression will come in to
play - those are the times when the two of you need to work it out in
whatever ways you've developed between you.

As long as you both maintain the goal of long term reality service,
you should get through it - like any other relationship.

• Both of you must NEVER forget this is serious edge play. This isn't
a game, and isn't to be taken too lightly. You are playing with
fundamental human emotions, feelings of raw self-worth, and making
conscious decisions with life changing consequences. The Goddesses
especially should realize the seriousness of this. Understand your
slave is a human being, with up and down cycles. With needs and fears
- not a 'pathetic useless worm' or 'a wallet to be gutted, drained and
tossed away'.

These images have their place in this world of ours, and I'm not
knocking them - but they are not conducive to long term, reality
financial service. While female feelings should ALWAYS be the
priority, Goddesses - ignore your slaves needs/desires/fetishes at
your peril. It is such a small thing to 'toss him a bone' and lightly
push his buttons to keep him focused on you on a daily basis,
especially when he is away from you. A text message to his mobile -
"Work harder, my ATM - I feel like treating myself to a relaxing full
body massage next week." or "Go to a private place, NOW. Kneel, bring
out my wallet and meditate in front of it for 10 real minutes.

Text your feelings when you're finished." - will go a long, long way
to keeping him focused on what is really important and are effortless
to give. It will take him immediately away from the world of strutting
male arrogance and bring him, for a while at least, back to your feet.

The Fetish Of Financial Domination

Hello all Financial slavery enthusiasts...Welcome to The world Of Financial Domination....Many don't truly understand the exact kink of this fine art in BDSM circles when it's as natural as the conception of mankind.
Men and Women re-enact this tradition usually as man and Wife. However in this fetish there has to be no marriage certificate and liberates the Dominate Female of "ownership" privileges by a man.
The Woman is free to use the cold cash of said man/pay piggie(s) to do as She finds pleases Her. If She wishes to pay bills, take lavish vacations, buy luxuries or shop for anything Her heart desires She will and She will have no obligation to amuse pay piggies. On the contrary, SHe may chastise them for not providing enough!
pay piggies are thus satisfied with the comfort and knowledge that their role has been served to the best of their ability to the Supreme Female they adore.
A sugardaddy relation differs as the Woman is usually expected to cater to the sensual needs of a man.
This is NOT the case in Financial slavery relationships. The slave/paypiggie, realizes there will almost never be an instance where he could have sex with the SUpreme Female he serves nor does he expect it as he knows he is unworthy and FULLY accepts his place as a workhorse and nothing more.
a paypiggie may be rewarding with online interaction from their Female Superior. This is at the sole discretion of the Domina they serve as Domina ABSOLUTELY owes them nothing but usually like I do, loves to TEASE said pay piggies telling them how they spent their hard earned cash. As a tease it is common for a DOmina to send photos or make videos showing their purchases or life of luxury provided by a good pay piggie.

I Myself am well versed in the art of Financial Domination and the seduction of this fetish.

I am a DOmina of extreme caliber who has lived a life of luxury solely provided by My loving pay piggies.

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